Feelings & the cold truth: EP 2

We could get so wrapped up in our feelings that we don’t even have an idea we’re being played. It’s a cold world we live in, right? Well, most times it’s our fault. A lot of girls have been with lots of guys that often twist their minds and leave their hearts broken. I want to tell you a little secret no one has probably never told you- Humans are very difficult species. We don’t know what we want most times which is a part of our flaws. The thing is, guys can get confused too just like some ladies stay stuck in between two guys wondering who to pick. Number one rule is, never get into a serious relationship with a guy that is not emotionally mature.
What do I mean? Emotional maturity would let a guy be honest with his feelings about those he keeps around him. He would also be concerned about building trust. Ladies, if you want something serious with a guy, table it from day one. If you don’t define your relationship, well, you’re wasting your time. It is so important you define your relationship because you’ll definitely meet a lot of time wasters. You’ve to speak up- Tell him if you want a serious relationship or you just want to be around for the benefits.
You can’t blame a guy who wasn’t informed of what exactly you want with him for playing along. Another thing is, some guys might think they actually have feelings for you but deep down it’s just pure sexual urge. I mean, would you also blame him for being sexually active? I know there are guys that don’t actually give a heck and don’t mind playing with your mind. That is why it is important to talk things out from day one. Defining your relationship with him would save you a lot of headaches. Even if the guy is an ass, he would respect you and realize there is no chance for him to waste your time.
Remember; talk, talk, and talk. Social media won’t make you know your prospective partner, you’ve to meet with them in person. It is possible to hide a lot behind the phone but a lot is revealed in person.